A GIFT OF SILVER

Many years ago when my son was very young and
I was still struggling with his bipolar-self medicating
father there was a thoughtful Christmas present in
my mailbox.

Back when there was no internet shopping or print
your own shipping labels this was a true delight.
A friend many miles away knew of my struggles
and found the time way before Christmas week
to seek out a silver bracelet from a handcrafted
silver shop. Not a China factory mass produced
item but something genuine and unique.

Even back then I did not seek out gifts for myself
under the Christmas tree. A few nice items for my
son and family were my sense of the season.

Now I realize that the small gift of silver from some
one who cared is worth all the gold and diamonds this
world can hold. The sender could not see my face as
I unwrapped the delicate wrapping that made it to
me through the US Mail without breakage.

I imagined the time it took to make the purchase and
get to the post office with the countless other seasonal
mailings that needed to be done. This was a gift given
in friendship & caring to ease pain in my life.

I so prefer a gift given in the joy of the season than from
a request list. I do not have a 'list' that others can check
for my 'wants' and 'likes'. I receive very few gifts nowadays.
I cherish the dollar store trinkets that may come from
my grandson. Also the pictures my son & daughter-in-law
may frame for my desk or walls are such a joy to receive.

The gifts I gave to the refugees in my city who came to this
harsh winter city from Burma were warming to my heart this
year. Gloves,mittens,scarves,coats & sweaters for children
wearing a warm up suit in less than 20 degree weather was
the meaning of giving for me this season.

I truly believe I am blessed and need to spend more of my life
seeking a need and giving just like someone did for me over
30 years ago.

May you find true joy & meaning in your Christmas season.